In this post, I’ll share 7 mistakes that you can avoid and find your perfect mangalsutra.
1. Â Spending little or no time to understand mangalsutra cultural significance
Your wedding checklist says you need a mangalsutra.
So you go looking for mangalsutra options.
You soon realize that there are many choices. You want to get a mangalsutra that matches you personal style and taste.
But the jeweler, your parents or in-laws inform you of the cultural requirements.
Do you give in and get a piece that’s traditional or would you rather the one that you’ll love wearing?
For example, it is a must to have black beads in a mangalsutra.
You are fine with the black beads but you prefer to have the black bead chain in rose gold.
In this case, you can ask for a rose-gold piece rather than being stuck with a gold color that you don’t like. By asking the right questions, take the time to understand the cultural requirements.
2. Forget to discuss with the bride-to-be on her mangalsutra style preference
As a groom or member of the groom’s family, you’re planning to get the mangalsutra.
You find beautiful pieces and decide to pick one that you like.
You choose the mangalsutra based on your personal taste, budget or available options at that time.
But you may forget that your choice is something the bride will have to live with for her lifetime.
The bride wears a mangalsutra on a regular basis after her marriage.
If she doesn’t like the style, it’s likely that the mangalsutra will end up in the bank safe or not be worn at all.
For this reason it’s important to pick a piece that matches the bride’s style preferences.
3. Choosing a piece that you can only wear on Indian outfits
As discussed earlier, a mangalsutra has cultural significance.
Therefore the designs also reflect our traditions and heritage.
But these days many Indian brides wear western outfits.
Particularly if you are working woman in a western country, chances are that you seldom wear Indian clothes to work.
If you can pick a piece that matches western and Indian clothing, you’ll be able to get the most of your mangalsutra.
For example, in the picture below, the bride has black beads in the back of the chain making it more versatile and unique.
4. Disregarding mangalsutra design elements
Mangalsutra design elements are the most under-appreciated. When deciding on your mangalsutra, pay attention to the following design elements:
a. Length
Decide how long you want your mangalsutra chain to be. In some cultures, the chain needs to be long enough that the mangalsutra pendant remains hidden at all times. Chains can be anywhere between 16 inches to 36 inches. In this video, you can learn exactly how to measure the perfect mangalsutra length.Â
b. Clasp
The clasp is the piece of metal that you touch with your fingers every time you want to wear or remove your mangalsutra. Low-quality clasps can break or make it difficult for you to wear or remove the mangalsutra.
c. Gold Metal Color
Gold metal color is generally a personal choice. For instance, you can opt for yellow, white or rose gold. Â
d. Chain Options
There are many different types of mangalsutra chains. For instance, you can get gold chains with unique designs. Or for black-beaded chains, you can find variety in the size of the beads.
e. Pendant Design
Pendant designs can be traditional or modern.
For instance, if you are deciding to go with a diamond mangalsutra, there are hundreds of pendant design options.
You can also decide to incorporate gemstones in the pendant.
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8 Thoughts on "7 Mistakes to Avoid When Buying A Mangalsutra"
Anne S.
April 9, 2017Sampat Jewellers offers not only beautifully crafted pieces but excellent customer service as well.
Jinal Sampat
April 12, 2017Dear Ann, Thank you so much for you message and kind words. We really appreciate having the opportunity to work with you. Love
Geet
January 2, 2018Dear Jinal,
Your blog about Ladies mangalsutra it’s really very useful for every married woman. And also very important information when we buying the Mangalsutra worried about these mistakes.
ankita
December 24, 2018hi ..when you buy mangalsutra online, don’t they give the chain with it ?
Jinal Sampat
December 27, 2018Hi Ankita,
Thank you for your message. Yes, we do provide chain when you buy the mangalsutra.
Priya
June 18, 2019How often we can change our mangalsutra design.? Either pendent or chain
Jinal Sampat
June 20, 2019Hi Priya, Thank you for your message. Although this is a very personal choice on how often you want to change the chain/ pendant. The idea of a mangalsutra is to protect the couple from negativity. Thus it doesn’t matter if its the same mangalsutra or different one. I hope that answers your questions. You can email us at contact@sampatjewellers.com if you have any other questions or would like to work with us to get a new mangalsutra 🙂 We will be happy to help.
Reena
April 1, 2022In our customs i have to wear 2magalya in one chain that mean one is from girl side and another one is from husband side.I recently heard that 2magalyas should not touch each other….is it true?My mother in law also recently changed her also but I dnt know wat to do…i want to know reason for that